don’t let opportunities pass you by. Don’t dismiss people without thinking about how you may feel later. Don’t end something great, just because you think it would be too inconvenient to your life to let it continue. The truth is, everyone needs closure. Even if you do try something, and it’s difficult, and it ends, at least you know you tried. At least you know it was really the right decision to end it. You tried, and you failed. That’s okay, that’s something you’ll get over. But wondering, always wondering how it would have went if you had just let it happen, that’s torture. It’s the “what ifs” that keep me up at night. And the fact that he was strong enough to want me, to want to put up a fight for me, and I wasn’t strong enough to fight for him. And for the way I feel now, I have only myself to blame.
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ReplyDeleteAs for closure, let me tell you a short story. In grade 9 this girl and I talked every day for months, and one day she just stopped talking to me. For the next 2 years she kept avoiding me every time she saw me at school.. I was really hurt but slowly I moved on. One day she talked to me and told me that she only like me because I was a rebound, and that's why she stopped. She wanted closure because she felt GUILTY for what she did. I know this isn't completely related to what you posted but everybody does need closure. If you leave something alone it will RIP you up inside until you have to speak to that person. I always thought closure was just some cheesy metaphor but it's not buddy. Take it easy now.