Sunday, August 1, 2010

things i learned in my past relationships

things i learned in my past relationships.. and i will read this on and on before starting a new one or while im at it :)

i've been with 3 boyfriends in my whole existence and these are the things that i have to remember so i won't commit the same mistakes again.

1. dont neglect your family and friends. they are your support system and would always love to hear from you. you can replace men but you can never replace your friends and most importantly your family.

2. dont always follow your heart. there should be balance between the mind and the heart. the mind tells you what the stubborn heart cant.

3. never initiate an action. the man initiated it first. he should always be the pursuer. they are born hunters so let them be.

4. trust is a major thing in a relationship, if at first you' re doubtful about his actions then stop it while its early before your feelings get deep.

5. i want to be treated like a princess. surprises and effort are a big big thing!

6. dont give all your heart to him. leave a large piece for yourself.

2 comments:

  1. I read this but somehow my comment didn't work hrm.

    I agree with everything. I've never had a problem with #1 but #6 sounds right to me - if you invest everything into her then you will be devastated when it ends. So be tough skinned and save a bit for yourself. I guess disasters teach us to learn better in the future. Meh.

    Hope you're doing ok buddy!!! Update more.

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  2. Yes, you are right. I learned so many things with my previous relationship, I'm now in the process of moving on. Wish me luck :) And thank you for the comment. Hope all is well with you too :)

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